Long before you are able to achieve commitment in a relationship, every woman wants to know the secret to attracting and keeping a man's attention. When I talk about attention, I mean the type of attention that's going to get a man to want to develop a relationship with you. It's more complicated than it looks, but there is help at hand.
Pick up almost any women's magazine, self-help guide or advice column and they will set out their own interpretation on the rules you must follow to get the man, and commitment, that you have always dreamed about. The funny thing is, many of these rules are similar to the ones that men follow, and assume that we women need the same stilted, regimented, and unimaginative feedback on how we need to act to get a man.
The rules tell you how to dress, how to act, how to hold your body, what to say, don't call him, play hard to get, do let him buy you a drink, all these things to remember! The problem is that following these rules suppresses the very creativity and femininity that defines who we really are.
Big mistake.
And once the rules have given you the man you think you want, and you have changed who you really are in order to attract a man's attention, what part of the real you is he attracted to? Any attraction he has for you is based on the version of you that you have created, which in many cases will give him a false impression. Bad idea and no foundation for a genuine, committed relationship!
That's specifically why you need a change in your methodology if you are serious about making any man want you more. It's not about rules and tricks. It's not about being someone you aren't. It's about letting go of the baggage and mistakes that are holding you back, and embracing your authenticity and inner attraction goddess.
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