How To Understand Men

If you are looking for advice on how to understand men better, there are numerous resources available that teach women to understand their boyfriends and to relate to their boyfriends better. One of those resources is a famous book Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus by John Gray. However, there are a lot more books and resources that have become available throughout the years to help women understand men. One of great books for women about finding and keeping the right man is Visit Site which you can view at this website here.

Let me tell you in a nutshell what I think is the No. 1
mistake women unconsciously make that scare a man away
from them.

They make a man feel that it is his responsibility to
make her happy.

When a man thinks your happiness rests on his shoulders,
he often feels a sense of panic.

It creates too much pressure for him to deliver, and he
may not have a clue how to make you happy, especially if
he hasn't even figured out how to make himself happy.

This is further compounded by the fact that women have
complex emotional needs that men cannot understand.
Therefore, a man may worry that he may not be able to
fulfill her needs, no matter how hard he tries.

You may not be aware that you're putting the
responsibility for your happiness on him, but you may
insinuate it in the things you do or say. One thing
you need to remember is that you must take responsibility
for your own happiness and your own sense of self-worth
because a man cannot do that for you.

For instance, a man can tell you everyday that you're
beautiful, but deep down, if you don't believe you're
beautiful, he couldn't possibly convince you otherwise.

Likewise, if you tend to have a negative view of life,
and feel victimized by things people say or do (including
him), how could he possibly make you happy when you're
projecting your dim view of the world on him and
everything else?

How you feel on the inside is just as important - if
not more important - than what you say or do.

One of the greatest gifts you could give a man is to
take the pressure off him by taking the responsibility
for your own happiness.

What good is finding the man of your dreams if you're
going to scare him away with your emotional neediness?

You can turn this around. Start from the inside to
become the woman a man adores and never wants to leave.

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