How To Play Hard To Get and Should I Play Hard To Get?

Many women want to play hard to get in the beginning of a relationship. But playing hard to get does not necessarily mean being manipulative, as some men think. Even some women are dead set on "being yourself". They say, if you have to play games to get a man interested in you, you are not worth his interest in the first place.

But let me ask you this, when you are at work, do you follow the normally established rules in your work place or do you just do whatever you please and whenever you please? Do you show up at your work whenever time you like or when you are expected to be there? And what would happen if you just ignored the established rules and did whatever you please on the job? You would probably get fired quickly, wouldn't you? Then why when we say "play hard to get", we are so negative?

Why do we necessarily perceive playing hard to get as being manipulative?

The drawback of playing hard to get is that most women don't know how to play hard to get and turn good men off by playing hard to get. If you want to learn how to make your man or boyfriend love and respect you more, if you want him to be more interested in you, you need to start with you. If you want to become the women men fall in love with, and commit to you need to know the secret strategies to make a man adore you and commit to you, read Make Him Commit